Bedtime Routine: Not Just for the Kids!

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The school year is upon us, and even though we’re not exactly sure what that’ll look like, it does mean there’ll be more demands on our kids and our schedules. As the demands increase, so does our need for sleep and a solid bedtime routine. 

The Need for Sleep 

Sleep is a foundational need. This means that all other skills rely heavily on how we manage this area. I’m sure you can remember a time when you were sleep deprived and how that impacted your memory, attention, decision-making skills, emotional control, and more.

Without adequate sleep, all areas of cognitive and executive functioning fall apart. We see this first-hand with our children. No matter the age, we know exactly when they’re sleep-deprived. They’re more emotional, harder to reason with, and can’t follow simple directions. These deficits are not exclusive to our kids; we, too, are significantly impacted by lack of sleep.

So how do we fix this?

Creating a sleep bedtime routine is as simple as choosing 3-5 things to do each night that let our bodies and minds know it’s time to wind down. Just as a nightly bedtime routine signals to our little ones that it’s time for sleep, our adult routines can also send the message that sleep is coming. Even as adults, this can look very similar. Taking a shower, changing into comfortable pajamas, and reading could be three simple things you do every night to alert your brain that it’s time for bed. 

What Do the Experts Say?

Studies have shown there are several strategies to include in a bedtime routine that can help us wind down. These include keeping a cool room, avoiding caffeine four hours before bed, changing our cellphone into “nighttime” mode (to reduce blue light), and avoiding screen time an hour before sleep. This last one is the most difficult for many. Our phones contain our alarms, schedules, information, and contacts. At just an arms reach, they easily become a distraction from our bedroom goal: sleep!

Try setting an alarm as a reminder to put the phone down. Otherwise, you’re laying in bed but signaling to your brain that it’s not time to slow down yet. Keeping your bed as a space exclusively for sleeping (and maybe one other fun activity…wink wink), is another way to maintain a healthy sleep routine. 

Sometimes we think the weekend is a great time to catch up on sleep, but experts say that’s not true. For most adults, 7-9 hours of nightly sleep is recommended. It’s important to keep our bedtime and wake time consistent as well. Changing your bedtime routine, even a half hour, can set you back as much as jet leg. No wonder so many of us feel lethargic on Monday mornings! 

Keep a Bedtime Routine Simple 

There can be many reasons we have trouble falling asleep that don’t include tiny humans coming into our room five times to tell us they need a drink of water. When we have racing thoughts, it’s hard to slow our brains down. Having a paper and pen by our beds, or using the notes app in our phone, can be a great place to dump racing thoughts and clear our minds of internal distractions. 

We all know “mom brain” is real. We use this expression to explain the times we’ve felt foggy and forgetful. If you feel like your speed of processing information is slower and you’re having trouble concentrating, a better sleep routine could be the cure! Sleeping helps our brain flush the toxins that build up during waking hours. Then we can feel less foggy and more focused the next day. Simply put, better sleep = better functioning. 

What three simple things can you put into action tonight to create a healthy bedtime routine? 

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Katina grew up in the suburbs of Philadelphia and played field hockey at the University of Connecticut, and has never been in as good of shape since. She met her husband, Justin, at a bar in Pittsburgh and, despite many romantic Skype dates, found a long-distance relationship to be a drag and moved to Fargo in 2010. She's a bonus mom to Justin's son, Owen (2005), and they have twins Augie and Delphi (2016) and two Great Danes, Rainy and Moose. She's a Speech-Language Pathologist and Certified Brain Injury Specialist who enjoys helping her patients improve their quality of life. She loves showing the world to her kids (but also seeing the world through their eyes), trying new foods, listening to live music and publicly mocking her little brother on Instagram. On most weekends, you can find her at one of her kids' many activities by day, and by night on the couch in sweats, eating a homemade charcuterie board and drinking expensive wine someone else bought. She still has Skype dates, but now they're with friends and family who live all over the place.

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